There is a person in my life whom i dont have a very healthy relationship with and up until just before Christmas just gone i was ready to cut ties with and basically forget about, however in the last 2 months things have changed and this person is now more invlived in my life and i am not sure on how i feel about that. if its was just a friend i would cut my loses but this person is ment to be my father. when i am around him i am a different person and he encourages me to drink and be reckless. what am i ment to do? do i cut my losses and have to deal with the questions later on in life from my daughter as to why she doesnt see her grandfather? i am just really confused as to what to do.